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Jan 13Liked by Judy Allen

You have packed so much into this one episode. This is not a complaint or criticism, only an observation. If you have the time, I would like to recommend a book for you to read; Leisure: The Basis of Culture, by Josef Pieper. I believe you find this short, but potent book substantiating your postulations and what retirement is really all about. I have read this book many times over and still find it inspiring.

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Kyle, I know this post was an overview, at best. There is so much more to discuss! I read Pieper's book about 8 years ago, and got a lot out of it, but frankly, I don't remember much of the content, and I certainly wasn't reading it with retirement in mind. Thanks for the suggestion; I'll read it again!

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Jan 11Liked by Judy Allen

Judy, I always find your essays insightful and thought-provoking. I do think retirement is a flawed concept. On the one hand, there is something to be said for gardening, golf, and grandchildren, although personally, I only enjoy the kids! But on the other hand, living for my own pleasure feels so empty. I constantly pray that the Lord will allow me to be useful to someone through whatever opportunities he brings my way.

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So true, Maggie. I believe the Lord wants us to enjoy life, but he also wants us to serve him and to be a blessing to others. Our culture sends the message that it’s all about us, and it’s easy to fall into believing the same. But it’s not true. I need to continually remind myself of that! And I’m not into gardening or golf either🤷‍♀️. Children and grandchildren, however, are a different story!

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Jan 11Liked by Judy Allen

Thank you for another insightful and curious perspective! This prompted me to think about how I define culture against values. I’m debating whether there is a true cultural evolution that is shifting our perceptions and behaviors over time and industrial and intellectual advancements vs the value we place on those along that same trajectory. OR VICE VERSA! I wonder if it’s culture or values that has remained more constant as we alter our attitudes and actions in a particular society. Our work culture still places higher value on men’s work as evidenced in the pay gap between men and women earners -- especially in the same positions, and the expectation that family matters fall primarily on females. It’s similar to how we value adolescents, young and maturing adults and elders particularly in the US vs other countries. I’m not sure where I stand but you definitely caused me to take a deep dive on this concept!

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Judi, excellent points. I hadn't factored values into this post, but it's another interesting angle. It's kind of a chicken and egg question, isn't it? Clearly, culture, values, and our work environments are connected, and which one leads the other, I'm not at all sure. Now you've got me thinking! Thanks, Judi, for reading and for your thoughts!

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Jan 11Liked by Judy Allen

Amen, Judy. Retirement is it flourish and keep growing. My husband and I are on that program and it's wonderful! Thx for your encouragement.

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Yes! With the wisdom gained throughout life we know ourselves better and with more time, I believe it's the best time to explore and flourish! Thanks for reading, Sue!

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Jan 11Liked by Judy Allen

Yes, yes, keep getting up in the morning and asking God, "What work do you want me to do today?"

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A good first question of the day! (Although I rarely ask it!) My attitude, however, is open and obedient to God. Thanks, Carole!

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