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Oct 26, 2023Liked by Judy Allen

Thank you for broadening our views of volunteerism, Judy. I often feel I'm not doing enough in the face of the needs aroundme in our church, community, and world, but I also fail to consider all the informal ways I use my time to help others. I appreciate this post.

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I feel the same - it can be overwhelming to be confronted with so many needs. Time is a gift, and we must decide how we will use it, which isn’t always easy! Thanks for your thoughts, Maggie.

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Oct 27, 2023Liked by Judy Allen

When you were volunteering at that crisis pregnacy center I thought "I could never do that". Years later that's just what I was doing--enjoying and growing through the experience. Here I felt I needed to be available to the grandhildren so didn't want to make a time committment, but we found a center to support with baby items and finances. Now (almost 20 years into retirement) I knit baby sweaters and hats for various ministries. The Lord provides the abilities and the opportunities--and sometimes the courage to step into something new.

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That’s so encouraging Diane, and you are right that the Lord will provide opportunities and we will grow through them. It sounds like you have a nice mix of informal and formal volunteering efforts. Thank you so much for your comment!

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Oct 26, 2023Liked by Judy Allen

Excellent discourse! I’m sad and concerned to see the decline in volunteering overall and the unaccountability of informal volunteering. I’d love to see a new checkbox on applications and forms giving the choice of “volunteer” in addition to “employed” and “retired” and even a choice of “on sabbatical.”

Retirement can be a social construct that confines self-perceptions and impressions that don’t necessarily reflect one’s true “work” status!

I recently admitted during a women’s networking event that I cringed when having to check the Retired box and rarely revealed my status as a “retiree” in social settings. The event leader suggested that I replace the dubious “R” word with the term “reframing” as my current stage in the “third age” as you cited in your essay. Love this concept.

When I worked I always appreciated and publicly praised the volunteers and stay-at-home parents who formally volunteered as PTA leaders and other leadership and lay positions in faith-based and civic and community groups and organizations. And now I relish receiving that same appreciation and recognition as a formal and informal volunteer that my privilege and passion provides.

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Very well said, Judi, and I agree that checking the “retired” box doesn’t do justice to what we are doing. It’s a new stage of life with all kinds of opportunity, and hopefully more of us will realize that. Thank you for your thoughtful comment.

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Thank you for sharing the data and information about volunteering. I hope the numbers start going back up. Some community organizations rely heavily on volunteers. Volunteers are essential.

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I absolutely agree, Prasanta.

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Excellent insight and sharing Thank you!

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